Affirming Therapy with Shay
Shayna Kirk, MBA, MA
Associate Marriage and Family Therapist AMFT #165416
Supervised by Lori Crowley, LMFT #121471, LPCC #10892
Hi there!
Since you made it here I hope we have a chance to connect. I work with neurodivergent people navigating complex social demands and folks dealing with the overwhelm of everyday life as a human. I work with anyone tired of apologizing for their fluctuating capacity, when this is the reality of being pushed beyond your limits. For parents with Autistic, ADHD, PDA or Twice Exceptional (2E) children, you're understandably exhausted from trying to explain yourself or your child to others. It helps to know there's a place you won't spend time translating experiences of burnout, shame, or self doubt. You're not alone. This is an area where I am particularly well aligned to help.
If you're seeking support as you navigate a gender journey- yours or a loved one, reach out. It can be isolating if you're unsure of who may understand what's coming up for you, If you're feeling the weight of trying to communicate with others on this topic, let's talk. No judgement for wherever you are on this journey, from day one fear/concern/curiosity/joy to those who have been navigating this for years.
I offer neurodivergent affirming therapy. Working together we can identify strengths you've had all along and shine a light on them to discover meaningful goals for therapy. I also offer LGBTQ+ affirming therapy. Living authentically with radical self compassion is possible. Let's problem solve what isn't working for you and softly enjoy moments where it all starts to make more sense.
Counseling & Therapy Services
I practice from a client centered perspective, tailoring my approach to the individual person or group, focusing on strengths. I work to meet individuals where they are rather than where anyone expects them to be.
Most frequently I work with the following experiences:
-Autism, ADHD, AuDHD, PDA (pathological demand avoidance/pervasive drive for autonomy)
-Twice-Exceptional (2E), Highly Sensitive Person, Anxiety, OCD
-LGBTQIA+ Identity Exploration and Gender Journey Affirming
-School System Support & Advocacy
I commit to intentionally center and honor the widely differing experiences of Neurodivergent & LGBTQIA+ Individuals, their Partners and Families.
I appreciate the opportunity to learn from and elevate a multitude of expressions, perspectives and experiences differing from my own. Beyond good intent, I work to actively educate myself and allow space for continued growth and connection.